Reese Witherspoon enjoyed 8 years of marriage to actor Ryan Phillippe.  They have two children together, Ava and Deacon.  Reese says that she has learned a lot from the divorce itself and that she has picked up the pieces and made a new world for herself.  Last year she remarried to Jim Toth.  She feels that in order to have a successful relationship with anyone there has to be negotiations.  Marriage does not have to be war.  You must be willing to compromise she says.  She said that she has developed a much stronger sense of what she wants now as well to make ...read more